Thankful

Well, it seems that our family has hit the bottom of a valley again. It seems there is going to be some resolution to the "strange situation" my family has been in for almost the last 2 year; not a good resolution, but resolution nonetheless. I think I am hoping that it is quick and not dragged out any longer than necessary, so my mom can have some closure and move on with her life.

Meanwhile, we are all hurting, confused, and angry just to name a few of the emotions. However, in the midst of this 2 year valley, I am trying to remain optimistic and be thankful, as God tells us to do.

Tonight when we came home and walked through the door, as I do many times these days, I just thanked God for this beautiful home he has given us.

I am thankful for my health, and the health of my family. Just a mere 2 years ago, my mom was finishing up her battle with cancer, which, thank you Lord, she fought hard and won! I am thankful that the chances of her cancer recurring are minimal because of advances in modern medicine.

I am thankful I have such a caring, loving sister. She is a rock and has so much more courage than I ever will.

I am thankful for my godly mother who tells me that God must have something good on the way for us. I know she is hurting and unsure of the future, but she is also looking at the big picture and trying to see things from God's point of view.

I am thankful for Seth, who might as well be my brother-in-law. He is the brother I never had and I know he would have my back, should I ever need anything.

I am thankful for bubbly, happy, innocent, brings-joy-to-our-lives-like-nothing-else-can Zoe. I know without a doubt that God brought her to us "for such a time as this" and that this journey would be so much harder if she weren't in it. It's really pretty amazing how a 2 year old has "carried" us through these hard times.

I am thankful for the friends I have who have seen me through the best and worst of times. Many times I have cried on their shoulders. Many times I have poured my heart out to them. But even more importantly, many times they have prayed for me. I cannot ask for more from a friend.

Certainly not least, I am thankful for my wonderful husband. He brings me joy and laughter. He is a wonderful provider. I was just thinking the other day, since I am not teaching anymore, why would God let me do 4 years of college to learn a profession I'm not even doing anymore? The thought crossed my mind, that maybe, just maybe, it was so I could meet Anthony. Had I not studied education in college, I never would have taken that impossible Math 200 class that Anthony and I shared together. Now, we were in brother/sister dorms, so maybe we still would have hooked up, but maybe not. Maybe it was being in that math class together that picqued our interest in each other. Who knows. Whatever the reason, I am thankful that God brought him to me.

Although I am not happy with or proud of the path my father has chosen to take, I am thankful that he was a good father to me when I was young, and that he and my mom raised me in a way that is honorable to God and in a way that allowed me to seek God.

Everyone will face hard times. It's inevitable. I am in one of those hard times right now. But I am thankful. There is a Caedmon's Call song that says "valleys fill first". When you are in a valley, that is the best time to feel God's blessings and be thankful. When God does send his healing rain on our family, our valley will fill quickly and bring us closer to him.

There was a family on Extreme Home Makeover that had the father pass away. One thing he said, that was very important to that family was something to this effect: there are so many things to think about, but there is nothing to worry about. That has just seemed to stick with me and come to my mind the past couple of days. For me to worry about the future is to doubt that God will take care of my family. I know he will. I am trying to choose not to worry. I am so thankful.

Where is the Summer Going??

Hello- I figured it was time for an update. Amanda told me I have been slacking since we moved in... I'll try harder. :) It's hard to believe we are more than half way through July already. We have been very busy. Anthony has less than a week left at summer school and then he will have a few weeks off before school starts back up again. I believe he is planning on building us a shed during his break. I've been at Staunton Foods for over a month now and am still enjoying it. The bulk of my work is divided between human resources and accounts payable. I'm hoping that work will pay for me to take an accounting class this fall and I kind of have it in my mind that I'm going to work toward a degree in accounting. I'm not really in a hurry but maybe in a few years I can add that to my resume.

This coming weekend is a down weekend for us. I think we'll need it because for almost the next month we are going to be very busy on the weekends. Next weekend, Mom, Anthony, and I are leaving on Friday morning and going to Knoxville to visit my wonderful friend Laura Williams. She just bought a house in January and we haven't seen it yet, so I'm excited about that. We are also going to go to Dixie Stampede while we are there. Anthony has never been and I absolutely love doing fun things with people who have never done them before! The weekend after that, the first weekend in August, Matt and Amanda (and baby) will be visiting us. We don't really have any special plans but I do know we'll be going to Chili's to satisfy Amanda's "there's no Chili's in Lynchburg" cravings. You don't hear me complaining. Then the weekend after that, Anthony and I will be going to Baltimore on Friday morning to see a Red Sox - Orioles baseball game. This was Anthony's birthday present. We'll stay overnight on Friday and I'm not sure what else we'll do while we are there. Probably go to the Inner Harbor maybe the aquarium. Any suggestions would be welcome!

This week we (well, me really) have been into The World Series of Pop Culture on VH1. Tonight is the final game. I guess it's fun for me because I know a decent amount of pop culture and Anthony doesn't really know much, so it's one thing I can beat him in! :)

I guess that's about all I have to say... here a few pictures to enjoy!


Our "wedding wall"



Up close



Us in front of the house..... Anthony sporting the sock feet



Zoe being silly wearing her daddy's hat - she would try to get him to chase her around the house because she stole his hat

Caverns Picture

Fun Weekend

As the weekend is coming to an end, I thought I would share the fun we had. Friday, as soon as I got home from work, we went to the Fireman's Carnival in Stuarts Draft and ate and watched the parade with Mom, Ashley, Seth, and Zoe. We also got to watch Zoe go on a few rides and ate a funnel cake and deep fried oreos. They were good, but definitely only a once a year treat!

Then Saturday morning, Anthony's parents came to visit for the day. We sat around and just talked for an hour or two. Then we went to Applebee's for lunch. After lunch, we went to Grand Caverns in Grottoes which is a town over from us. I had been there a couple times, but I am always up for something fun like that. It really is amazing to see all the formations and marvel at one of God's wonderful creations. Anthony's mom got some really nice pictures and I will post some as soon as I get them from her. After the caverns, we got some ice cream and came back to the house and chilled for a while. It was a little after 6:00 when they left. We wished they could have stayed longer, but it sure was nice to have them visit! Saturday evening, we stayed home and watched "Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets" which is the second in the series. I have been working on the books and we're watching the movies once I finish the book. It has been so nice to have time to read like this!

Today, we had church then lunch at Mom's. Then Ashley and I went to the mall and did some shopping. It was nice since I haven't been shopping in such a long time. I got some cute shirts and didn't spend much money since I had gift cards. It was nice to be able to spend some time with Ashley too.

We have had a wonderful weekend, and are wrapping it up by watching Larry the Cable Guy on TV. He is so hillarious!

July Already!

Thought I would just give a brief update. We had a great weekend. My friend Eric from Shelburne got married on Saturday, so we went to the wedding and the reception which was fun. From there we went straight to Lynchburg. We went shopping with Matt & Amanda that evening and randomly ran into Vicky at Cold Stone Creamery... yum! Sunday we went to church at Lynchburg First Church of the Nazarene which was the church we went to while we were there at Liberty. They are in a new sanctuary now, and it was nice to go back for a visit. That afternoon we had Ren's bridal shower, which was a blast. It was so great to spend time with the girls. It has been way too long. Poor Matt & Anthony had to entertain themselves for about 2 and 1/2 hours while we girls gabbed away and caught up. All in all, it was a wonderful weekend.

Tonight we went for a walk and met an older couple at the end of our cul-de-sac. They were very friendly and told us that they are planning a street get-together picnic type thing in a couple weeks. They also told us about some other neighbors who have seen a mother and baby cub in their backyard! Kind of cool but scary too! We actually haven't seen any wildlife but she said they had paw prints from the bear on their driveway and that they have seen deer too. I would love to see some deer, but the bear can stay in the woods as far as I am concerned. :)

Tomorrow, we both have off and are going to the Biggs' for the annual 4th of July celebration. I hope everyone has a wonderful holiday!

Long Overdue

So I realize that I am long overdue for a new post. I guess I do have a pretty good set of excuses though... new house, new job... you know how it is. I feel like there has been so much going on in the past 2 weeks, I don't even know where to start.

We are really starting to feel settled in now and have been busy with details making our house what we want it to be. Anthony has been quite the handy man in that he has installed our garbage disposall (which I was dying without), some under the counter lights for the kitchen, and put together the grill we bought. We just bought an area rug and a runner for the living room tonight, which really make it feel more homey.

Also, just yesterday, after more than a year of having it boxed up, I pulled out my grandmother's china which she gave me as a wedding gift. It was one of her wedding gifts when she was married back in the 1940's. I have felt so honored that she would decide to give such a wonderful gift to me. I hand't unpacked it before now because I knew it wouldn't be long till we were packing again. But hopefully, we will be here for a nice long while. :)

We have been watering our lawn nearly everyday in what has been a mostly successful attempt to grow grass. It really is looking good, but there are a few spots we're going to need to re-seed to get some grass growing. I'm so glad to have the beautiful deck to be able to relax and enjoy the fruits of our labor.... now - if only we could find the time to do that!

Also new, is my job. I am working at Staunton Foods now as the Human Resources/Payroll Administrative Assisstant. I am truly enjoying it and it feels like a really good fit for me. I have always thought that if I didn't do education in college I would have done accounting (and now wishing I had!) and I get to do a lot of things that deal with numbers and that sort of thing. I actually may take an accounting class in the fall. It's been really nice to come home and have evenings and weekends free of schoolwork.

Well, I need to wrap this up and get to bed. We have a big weekend ahead of us with a wedding here tomorrow, and then we are headed to Lynchburg tomorrow evening for Ren's bridal shower on Sunday. Here are a few of the latest pictures.


One of our first pieces of grass!!!



Living room with new arrangement and rug.



Under the counter lights.

New Pictures

Hall Bathroom:




Guest Bedroom:




Kitchen:




Master Bedroom: